Photo: Philippe Sainte-Laudy

I have a friend I go dancing with. She is single, beautiful and open to a new love relationship. However, she doesn’t go dancing to “look” for that relationship. Her attitude is “If it happens, it happens, if it doesn’t, that’s okay.” She commented that if she went for the sole purpose of “looking” for a relationship, she would be miserable and ruin her night because she would be focused on finding someone instead of on having fun.  She knows that the new relationship will happen when it’s right. Instead, she goes out to dance, talk with her friends, make new friends, listen to the music, and have a good time.

And having a good time is exactly what she does.